Try listing five things that you feel are most important to you. I will start out by listing the first two for you: God; and family. Okay, now you have to list only three. Let's make it outside of work, school, or your occupation: List three things that generate most of your time and effort. Outside of your routine church activity, when other members of the family are consumed with something else, and work obligations are out of the way ...when it's called "you" time, what occupies most of your time? What do we most look forward to ...during what we call our free time?